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The Lives of Older Lesbians: Sexuality, Identity & the Life Course

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Think of these differences as opportunities to really explore your partner’s viewpoint and to get to know them on a deeper, more fundamental level, rather than something that’s lacking. Marquis and Smaltz’s 2011 nuptials made the front page of The New York Times’ Wedding/Celebrations — unsurprisingly, as the two have a very intriguing story that you should read!

Your differences are a chance to learn more about each other and the world, not a disadvantage that will hold you back.

For instance, one woman I know who came out in the late 1960s remembers the times when police would raid lesbian bars and put the patrons in jail if they weren’t wearing at least three articles of women’s clothing. A guy I had sex with in 1987 (now happily married with two kids and living in the ‘burbs) shows up and tells me how great I look. Whether you’ve been out for a long time or are just coming out now, there are challenges in seeking love at this age. I just like older people in general friendship, relationships or a one time thing but they always think I'm straight or too young so I haven't met someone interesting yetPretty much all my life I've been attracted to older women.

Especially when one partner is much further along their life path, it can be tempting to wish you had met when you were both younger or that you were closer in age. Nicki Minaj releases Megan Thee Stallion diss track Big Foot and hits low: 'Why did you lie about your lipo? Some of you may think I’m younger than I am because I have colourful hair, but we are literally not doing anything wrong.

You might face questions about your partner’s “true intentions,” and even if those concerns come from a place of love it’s important to let them know when they cross a line. For other older lesbians, our wisest self feels ageless and timeless, perhaps even genderless, or beyond gender. You learned to be open to dating someone your partner’s age, and your friends and family will have the same learning curve. Looking at her local news site for something interesting, her eyes fell upon a certain article that made her heart beat faster.

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